Do What You Like To Be Done To You

"Don't lie to me susy"-mark, "Well you lied to me"-susy. In this short converstaion, susy has all the right to say what she did, and she is true. This happens amongst every relationship, a person does something that they would hate someone to do to them. In a sense you dont have the right to ask people to do what you dislike if you do it to others. This is a basic rule of thumb that many think of only one side, the fact that they don't like a certain action, reaction or whatever it may be. The most mature thing to do is to avoid doing what you ask people to not do, therefore it dosen't give them the reason nor the right to do it to you. And I could say from experience that when the person, be it friend, parent or family member tells or does something they have always told you not to do, bringing up that they hate it and why they would do something that they don't like for it to be done to them makes them feel guilty and terrible. Next time, you fall in such a situation make sure that you let the person know that if they don't burst your bubble you won't burst theirs.

Alcoholism Among Teens

Binge drinking has its upscale during the four-year college period, when many adolescents become adults "ready" to take on the great yet obsolete responsibility of drinking. Many ideas have been presented on lowering the law of not being eligible to drink until the age of 21 to the age of 18. In my opinion the maturity level of that of an 18-year-old is not much different of a 21-year-old in deciding what is their alcohol limit.A dear friend of mine and I talked about our winter break and how it went, when he began rageing about how his stomach pains were becoming unbearable. I was then worried and asked if he had the flu or ate something that was bad to his stomach, but I was in shock of the response...he had drunk uncontrollably the last few weeks and that caused him to feel sick, weak and suffer greatly in his abdominal area.These are symptoms of a person with cirosis at the age of 50 would have, and yet that's what my friend of 17 years of age is feeling. Its sad to think that these are things hapenging to our age group, this shouldn't be a time for teenagers to be expiriencing those aches or drunk moods. I whole-heartedly suggest anyone who drinks to drink moderatly for the well-being of your body and those who aren't bibulous, try to drink as little as possible because such feelings of binge drinking or hangovers are all but pleasant.

Healthy Relationships

At one point or another everyone will be involved in a serious relationship and ways to keep it strong and happy are sometimes difficult to find.Most people tend to be afraid of such relationships because they believe they aren't ready for commitment, but when they fall in love they fall helplessly. For instance my friend and I both never thought we would end up in a serious relationship and yet we are now very happy in a commitment relationship. Communication is the biggest factor that gives to a healthy or distaster of a couple. Everything should be said and expressed for the partner to know what is going on with you and in your life. Being with another person, seriously, is sharing the happiness and sadness life brings, not hiding important and also un-important things from them.