Do What You Like To Be Done To You

"Don't lie to me susy"-mark, "Well you lied to me"-susy. In this short converstaion, susy has all the right to say what she did, and she is true. This happens amongst every relationship, a person does something that they would hate someone to do to them. In a sense you dont have the right to ask people to do what you dislike if you do it to others. This is a basic rule of thumb that many think of only one side, the fact that they don't like a certain action, reaction or whatever it may be. The most mature thing to do is to avoid doing what you ask people to not do, therefore it dosen't give them the reason nor the right to do it to you. And I could say from experience that when the person, be it friend, parent or family member tells or does something they have always told you not to do, bringing up that they hate it and why they would do something that they don't like for it to be done to them makes them feel guilty and terrible. Next time, you fall in such a situation make sure that you let the person know that if they don't burst your bubble you won't burst theirs.

Alcoholism Among Teens

Binge drinking has its upscale during the four-year college period, when many adolescents become adults "ready" to take on the great yet obsolete responsibility of drinking. Many ideas have been presented on lowering the law of not being eligible to drink until the age of 21 to the age of 18. In my opinion the maturity level of that of an 18-year-old is not much different of a 21-year-old in deciding what is their alcohol limit.A dear friend of mine and I talked about our winter break and how it went, when he began rageing about how his stomach pains were becoming unbearable. I was then worried and asked if he had the flu or ate something that was bad to his stomach, but I was in shock of the response...he had drunk uncontrollably the last few weeks and that caused him to feel sick, weak and suffer greatly in his abdominal area.These are symptoms of a person with cirosis at the age of 50 would have, and yet that's what my friend of 17 years of age is feeling. Its sad to think that these are things hapenging to our age group, this shouldn't be a time for teenagers to be expiriencing those aches or drunk moods. I whole-heartedly suggest anyone who drinks to drink moderatly for the well-being of your body and those who aren't bibulous, try to drink as little as possible because such feelings of binge drinking or hangovers are all but pleasant.

Healthy Relationships

At one point or another everyone will be involved in a serious relationship and ways to keep it strong and happy are sometimes difficult to find.Most people tend to be afraid of such relationships because they believe they aren't ready for commitment, but when they fall in love they fall helplessly. For instance my friend and I both never thought we would end up in a serious relationship and yet we are now very happy in a commitment relationship. Communication is the biggest factor that gives to a healthy or distaster of a couple. Everything should be said and expressed for the partner to know what is going on with you and in your life. Being with another person, seriously, is sharing the happiness and sadness life brings, not hiding important and also un-important things from them.

Need Advice?

I have posted distinct advice for a variety of subjects but now I ask you to share any problems, worries, doubts or intrests. The blogging network has become a great way to communicate and sharing what you feel or indecision with others allows you to have more perspectives on your situation and ways to solve it. So by posting a comment write what you desire and others bloggers and I will respond with the best of our knowledge and ability. Thank you.

Become Enchanted during the X-mas Season

Fairs and carnivals are present year-round, but Santas Enchanted Forest is only during the Holiday season. This special entertainment park for all ages is only found in Florida, it offers more than 100 rides, shows and presentations.Santa's Enchanted Forest is the world's largest Christmas theme park, which has lived to every person's expectations. I advice any adult/child to visit this incredible themed park over winter break because it's a fascinating expirience to interact with those you love in the most joyous season of the year.

To look at pricing and directions view this website http://www.santasenchantedforest.com/ .

Subjects for College

Thankfully in the United States we have some years before we choose which area to study and with what majors and specializations. Fortunatly we are different from many other countries in what courses we take in college. For instance, in South America you must know what career you want to specialize in before you apply to the university, you have to be completely decided. To change your study is somewhat complecated but what if you begin to dislike what you thought you loved dearly. This occurs frequently and causes the universities mork work in changing the courses and more many loss for the parents. In the U.S we have the oppurtunity to study the basics for some odd years and after testing the waters choose what we like best. I suggest all of the students who plan on attending college to not get frustrated because of the blankness and obscureness of not being decided.

If you would like to see more info and advice on what courses in specific to take at college in what your intrested in or in general visit t6his website http://abpi-careers.org.uk/giving-career-advice/parents-folder/what-subjects-to-choose

Couple Trouble?

I know every relationship has its up's and down's, even though the love might be mutual and incomparably strong. Most of the time the man or woman says its inevitable, yet under every circumstance the situation can be avoided or fixed humanely when it occurs. Maybe one of them has issues accepting the personalities of their couple because it is very difficult to cope with someone who you havent been used to all of your life. In the magazine "Cosmo" I read an article of Dr. Zemphtine giving great tips to young couples on how to manage their anger or fighting with their partner. Here are a few tips you might want to look at if you have a couple and want to prevent such happenings or keep them under control if they happen.

http://teenadvice.about.com/od/datingrelationships/ht/first_fight.htm

1. Remind yourself that conflict is normal and important for the relationship to move forward. If you're going to be with someone for more than a few weeks, you're going to need to show your true self, and sometimes that involves disagreeing with others.

2. Also remind yourself that every successful relationship is built in part on the ability of couples to disagree. Being able to resolve these conflicts makes the relationship stronger.

3. Try to stay calm when you argue or disagree with your girlfriend or boyfriend. Fighting isn't fun, but it doesn't need to be scary. The more low-key you can keep the disagreement, the easier it will be for both of you to work out an agreeable solution.

4. Try to see the other person's point of view. Nobody's perfect, and maybe something you said -- or the way you said it -- hit a nerve with them. Here's a great opportunity to find out something that bugs your partner and work with them to find a way of approaching the subject in a way that makes them more comfortable.

5. When you argue with your girlfriend or boyfriend, try to learn where their frustration comes from and/or why they're feeling hurt. Have they had a bad experience with someone else in the past? Are they insecure about a particular issue? What can you do to help and be supportive?

6. If possible, emphasize to your girlfriend or boyfriend that your relationship comes first and that you care about them a lot. Make sure you sincerely mean both of these things, and look your partner in the eye when you say them.

7. Determine what kind of fight you're dealing with. Some fights are about a difference in opinion, while others are about something that's more black and white: cheating, lying, stealing, etc.

8. If you're dealing with a black-and-white issue and you're the person who's been lied to or cheated on, you need to decide what needs to happen for you to regain the other person's trust. If you're the one who's in the wrong, you need to be prepared to apologize and fix your behavior immediately.

9. In most cases, the issue won't be so clear-cut and a compromise can be reached that both people find satisfactory. In making a compromise, think about what you're willing to give up for the sake of the relationship and what you expect your boyfriend or girlfriend to be willing to sacrifice.

10. Pay attention to the balance of power when working out the issue you're fighting about. One person may have to give up more than the other in the process of making the compromise: Consider whether that's fair to them and if it solves the problem for you, too. If you end up benefiting more from the compromise than your partner does, be willing to bend a bit more the next time the two of you fight.

11. Notice the ways that you partner sees the world differently from you. In the future, use this information to ask them questions about their values, ideals and what they expect from the relationship. For example, if you find out that your partner is very turned off by your friends' gossip but you don't think their gossip is a big deal, you'll need to find a way for the two of you to talk about it.

12. After you resolve the fight, do something fun with your partner that reminds them that you care about them and can move on from the disagreement.

13. Sometimes the issue will crop up again or you'll find yourself holding a grudge. If either of these things happens, bring up the issue again in a calm way and try to renegotiate the compromise.